Monday, November 7, 2011
My Sophie Lyn
Happy Halloween!
We had a very fun and busy Halloween weekend. Wednesday, October 26th we carved pumpkins with Sophie. She had a great time but was not interested in sticking her hand in the pumpkin to pull out seeds. She doesn't like her hands to get messsy.
Sophie wanted to help Daddy with the cutting. She wanted to play with the carving knife. She helped Jon cut out the nose, and then she just wanted to play with the nose. She'd put it back in and then push it out and put back. I think she did that for a few minutes until Jon convinced her to let him finish cutting out the rest of the face. She also helped Daddy by putting the carving knife in over and over where Jon had already cut. She wanted to be sure it was cut all the way through.
We took Sophie trick-or-treating around our neighborhood. Our friends the Judsons and the Andersons met us at our house at 6:30 and we met up with the Parkers on the way to their house. The weather was beautiful all day and the temperature was probably close to 50 degrees when we went out. I don't think Sophie was quite sure what was going on, but she seemed to have fun. About half way through, her hands and cheeks were getting cold, so we came home. When we got home the Jeffreys were just pulling in to the driveway. When everyone finished trick-or-treating, they came over to our house for some hot chocolate, hot cider, doughnuts and cookies. We had a fun evening with friends. Halloween is a lot more fun when you have a little one to celebrate with. Next year hopefully I'll be on the ball and Jon and I will dress up with Sophie.
Friday, November 4, 2011
To My Sweetheart, Jon!

During my reflection I felt extreme gratitude for Jon's health. I am so grateful that he is doing so well and that the cancer is gone. You never expect to have your spouse come home and tell you that they have to see an oncologist, but when the day comes you just feel so numb. I didn't know what to do or think. I was truly amazed at how quickly I was able to feel the blessings of the spirit strengthening me and lifting me up. One of my worst nightmares had come true and I didn't know how to face it. We felt the spirit so strong helping us through this difficult time. From the very beginning, I knew in my heart that the biopsy results would show that he had cancer, even though I know there were many who were praying that it wouldn't be cancer. I thank you and truly appreciate all of your prayers on Jon's behalf. When we found out the exact diagnosis I was truly at peace and I knew in my heart that Jon would beat this. He told me that he felt that it wasn't his time to go, and once he told me, I believed it.
We've had some very difficult times throughout all of this. Starting out with Jon's first chemo treatment. I was furious when I came home from working out and I found out that he had gone in before we were ready. Someone forgot to tell us that his appointment had been changed. I sobbed while I took a quick shower. I was angry and scared and I didn't know what to do or how to feel. I knew I needed to be strong for Jon, but I didn't know how. I've always been the sick one and I didn't know what to do to be a strength to him. Fortunately the rest of that treatment went well and Jon and I were able to enjoy some time together talking and just sitting in silence while we read. I was so grateful that my mom was here with us that day. She gave me great advice and was such a strength to me.
As Jon went through more chemo the side effects became harder and harder to bare. Not only did he have to deal with all of that, but he also had to have surgery for an abscess that caused him so much pain. There were times I thought we would never get through this. Times that seemed like this would never end, but we were continually blessed with love and support from friends and family and with strength from the Lord. My testimony has truly been strengthened through this experience. It wore me down physically and emotionally it was so hard to see Jon going through so much pain and feeling so sick, but the Lord gave me the strength I needed to be able to care for my family. Thankfully He also blessed me with good health this year. Sophie was such a sweetheart through all of this. I know my patience was limited at times and once Jon started feeling better and started teaching again, I realized how stressful the summer had been with him being so sick. I found myself being able to be more patient with Sophie and I felt sad knowing how short I'd been with her during the summer. Luckily she is so forgiving. She is such a sweet girl and I am so grateful to have her as a part of our family.
I feel so blessed to have Jon with me today. I am so grateful that the Lord saw fit to heal Jon. I don't know what life would be like without him here. I am truly blessed to have such a sweet little girl to spend each day with. I am so grateful that I don't have to work, that I'm able to stay home and be with Sophie each day. I don't think anything could bring me more joy. I am grateful for the eternal nature of families that we have been sealed for eternity. How wonderful to know that we will always be a family no matter what happens to us on this earth. We are so blessed to have the gospel in our lives. My testimony gave me the strength I needed to get me through this difficult time. I am so grateful for all of the help from friends and ward members. What a blessing to have help with Sophie and for the many meals that were brought in. I thought I would be fine, but what a blessing it was not to have to worry about fixing dinner when Jon wasn't feeling well and Sophie was so full of energy. I want Jon to know how much I love him and how grateful I am that he is my eternal companion. I am so excited for the holidays this year and I look forward to spending many more with Jon and Sophie.
Monday, October 17, 2011
It's the Great Pumpkin Charlie Brown!
"Here it is! This is the perfect one."
My happy little pumpkin! She had so much fun with all of the pumpkins. She didn't want to leave, but her nose was red and her hands were getting cold. It was a beautiful day, but windy and the wind was a bit chilly. We didn't end up buying that big pumpkin. I didn't want to have to gut it and carve it. We got two medium pumpkins for carving and then two small pumpkins. We are going to carve the pumpkins next week, so we'll see how much Sophie likes carving the pumpkins.
Happy Birthday Jon!
Jon had a wonderful birthday this year. Sophie was my big helper all day. We went to the mall that morning and got Jon's popcorn bucket filled with his favorite cheese corn and then we stopped and got some balloons. Sophie loved the balloons! They kept her happy while we were in the car. We stopped by Jon's office and dropped off the popcorn and balloons. Sophie loves going to Daddy's office. She likes to play with all of his pens. Because Jon walks home, he asked us to take the balloons and popcorn with us, but not before he snitched some popcorn. He had to taste it. I made one of Jon's favorite meals for dinner, meatballs and mashed potatoes. While we waited for the potatoes to finish cooking, I let Jon open his presents.
Jon received the best present of all, he had his last radiation treatment on his birthday. He is now officially done with all of his treatments and he's on his way to getting back to normal. He has felt fatigued and he feels like something is stuck in his esophagus and his feet still tingle, but the worst of it is over. We are so happy that he has made it through all of his treatments and we are anxious for him to feel like himself once again.
Happy Birthday Jon!
Grandpa Reeds Birthday Surprise!
Sophie and I surprised my dad for his birthday this year. We bought plane tickets back in July, to fly out on my dad's birthday and surprise him. My sister Nicole was in on the surprise with us, so she came and picked us up from the airport. We landed around 10:20 am, and Nicole was on her way. Sophie and I got off the plane and headed for the baggage claim. Well, I was on the cell phone talking to Jon and I missed the sign for baggage claim in terminal 2 and we ended up at the baggage claim for terminal 1. Nicole called and told me which carousel our luggage was supposed to be on and it was carousel 8, and I was near carousels 1-4. I realized we were in the wrong place, so we walked outside to terminal 2. By the time we got there, the carousel was empty and no one was around. I looked at my watch and it was 11:00 am. I figured the luggage had already come and gone and I missed it. I went to the Delta luggage claim area and sure enough, they had pulled our bags because we hadn't shown up to claim them. Once we got our luggage, we headed to Grandma and Grandpa Reed's for the surprise.
I was so nervous and excited as we got closer to my parent's home. I had Nicole drop us off at the end of the street so that Sophie and I could walk, while Nicole went in the house to make sure they were home. By the time we walked up the driveway, Nicole had come out to tell us that mom and dad weren't home. Nicole talked to them an hour earlier and she told them that she would be there within the hour so they could go to lunch for Dad's birthday. I figured they probably decided to run to the grocery store for a few minutes, so we took our luggage inside and changed clothes. It was cold when we left Minnesota, but it was warm and sunny in Utah. About the time that we were ready to head upstairs and feed Sophie some lunch, we heard the garage door open. Nicole went upstairs first and I sat and listened, waiting for both of my parents to get in the house. Once I could tell that they were inside, I had Sophie start walking up the stairs. She wasn't quite sure what was going on. Nicole wished Dad a Happy Birthday and then she told him that someone else wanted to wish him a Happy Birthday. At that time he looked toward the stairs just as I lifted Sophie up to the top step. When Grandpa saw Sophie, he yelled. He was so excited to see her, he just couldn't hold it in. He wanted to scream some more, but he was worried about scaring Sophie, so he picked her up and cried instead. It was wonderful! My mom was in the kitchen trying to figure out who Grandpa was holding. Once she saw me, she knew exactly who it was and she started to cry. It was truly wonderful! Their reactions were the best. Dad told me later, when he saw Sophie he thought he was seeing things. He said "I wanted it to be her so bad, I thought I was imagining her." It was the best birthday present Grandpa could have ever wished for.
Wednesday, September 21, 2011
Ten Wonderful Years!

I can't believe it was 10 years ago today that I had to wake up before the crack of dawn and get myself looking beautiful for my wedding day. It was 10 years ago that our poor guests had to arrive at the Salt Lake Temple by 7:10 am. Sorry it was so early, but we appreciate your love and support and willingness to be there with us so early in the morning. It was 10 years ago that I sat iin the Celestial Room with Jon and he asked me if I was going to say "yes" or "no". I told him I was planning to wait until we were kneeling at the alter to say "no". It was a beautiful sunny day and it was the best day of my life, I got to marry my best friend. He is now my eternal companion and I am so grateful the gospel and the priesthood power which makes it possible for our marriage to go on for eternity. I am so grateful that he is here with me today to celebrate 10 wonderful years and I pray that he will be around 10 more years and many more beyond that. I am grateful for all the prayers that have blessed Jon and helped him to be here today. He is doing well and looking great. He is my best friend, my lover, my companion, the one who loves me and accepts me for who I am and he is the father of my beautiful little girl. I love you so much Jon and I look forward to many more adventures in the future.
Monday, September 12, 2011
Labor Day Weekend Fun
After dinner we went back to the hotel to swim. The pool was a little too cold, so we ended up in the hot tub instead. Sophie wasn't too sure about the hot tub and the bubbles at first, but once she got used to it she loved it. I was worried that she'd get too hot, so we kept her up on the stairs most of the time. When we finished we gave the girls a bath and then we put them to bed in our room. The rooms were right next to one another and there was a door joining the two rooms. Since the girls were in our room sleeping, Jon and I went to the Anderson's room to play games. The Anderson's room was a handicap room and it was huge. We played a few rounds of Uno and then we played a game of Dixit. Around 10:00 Jon, Adam and Claire made a late night run to Wendy's for frostys. It was a great late night treat!
When we got to Whitewater State Park, it was still raining, but it wasn't a down pour. Most of the Andersons really wanted to fish, so we bought passes and went in to the state park. We waited for 20 minutes or so for the rain to die down and then we all got out for a fun adventure. Adam and the kids fished, while Rita and Elsie and Jon, Sophie and I walked around. Sophie and Elsie were having a great time running around splashing in the puddles. Both girls had on their new tennis shoes, which they have the same shoes just different colors. Rita and Jon told me not to worry about Sophie's new shoes getting wet. I want them to stay looking new, but of course they aren't going to, she's 15 months old.
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